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  • Thursday, June 12, 2008
  • test post
    pubDate: Thu, 12 Jun 2008 13:10:52 GMT
  • Saturday, August 28, 2004
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    pubDate: Sat, 28 Aug 2004 19:03:47 GMT
  • Thursday, August 12, 2004
  • Starsailor- At the End of the Show

    New xanga: www.xanga.com/voyageaparis

    check it out for all the Paris happenings

    pubDate: Thu, 12 Aug 2004 15:40:27 GMT
  • Tuesday, June 15, 2004
  • Jeff Buckley- Everybody Here Wants You

    And the year is over. I can't believe it. Another year gone. Its so hard to believe. Next year is going to be so different than this one...obviously being abroad. When we come back so much will have changed. For starters- no Rafi....which as much as I don't want to buckle down and admit, but god am I going to miss that boy. The year went by so quickly...who knows how quickly these next two will go, and how different all of us will come back. But thanks for the memories, Geneva kiddos and other UCSD buds. I love you guys a lot, this year was awesome.

    So finals ended for me on Tuesday after working unbelievably hard to get stuff out of the way on time. Wednesday was nuts....Andrew and I spent 3 hrs moving stuff out of the Geneva apt into the Trieste one (thanks again for your help Andrew). By the time we were done and I could finish packing and cleaning, it was time to leave for the airport. Saying bye to everyone kind of sucked, esp considering none of us will be together like that probably....ever. The flight was ok. I guess I got major allergies from the moving dust, so I was majorly doped up on the flight back to Jersey, and slept a whole bunch, and got into Jersey Thursday morning. I was back for practically only a couple hours before we headed out to Michigan.

    My uncle and his family live in Michigan, and it was my baby cousin's 11th birthday, so we got to be there for his birthday party which was so much fun, esp cause he's the cutest boy ever. I love seeing my cousins and family, it feels so comfortable and its just nice to be around them. Yesterday (Saturday) we went around to visit old family friends. My bro and I were both born in Michigan, and my parents made their first "American" friends there (even though all Indian....you know how it goes). So there are a lot of people around who have known us since I was pretty much a baby, esp cause we left there when I was 3. We went around a saw two families who were good friends of ours when we lived there. It was really awesome. The kids we grew up with are all graduated from college and working now, and I don't really remember them, but for them it was weird to see me as, well, not a toddler. haha. We'd actually done just the same thing in Cupertino at Thanksgiving, so up next for this reunion business is Blue Bell in PA....but at least I still have contacts there. Well..1 (haha Poopy). So we drove back this morning, got back around 7 and I've just been chilling since then. Now, I am off to bed and to possibly call some folks.

    Night all.

     

    ps. for some reason I'm reading Bridget Jones' Diary- which I thought would be pretty amusing, but I'm finding kind of dull. Thinking of reverting to Prisoner of Azkaban, which was by far more amusing. We'll see.

    pubDate: Tue, 15 Jun 2004 03:22:23 GMT
  • Wednesday, June 02, 2004
  • Nelly Furtado- Childhood Dreams

     

    Two poems from Third World Studies that really spoke to me/touched me.

    Kamala Das- An Introduction

     

    I don’t know politics but I know the names

    Of those in power, and can repeat them life

    Days of week, or names of months, beginning with

    Nehru. I am Indian, very brown, born in

    Malabar, speak three languages, write in

    Two, dream in one. Don’t write in English they said,

    English is not your mother-tongue. Why not leave

    Me alone, critics, friends, visiting cousins,

    Every one of you? Why not let me speak in

    Any language I like? The language I speak

    Become mine, its distortions, its queernesses

    All mine, mine alone. It is half English, half

    Indian, funny perhaps, but it is honest,

    It Is as human as I am human, don’t

    You see? It voices my joys, my longings, my

    Hopes, and it is useful to me as cawing

    Is to crows or roaring to the lions, it

    Is human speech, the speech of the mind that is

    Here and not there, a mind that sees and hears and

    Is aware. Not the deaf, blind speech

    Of trees in storm or of monsoon clouds or of rain or the

    Incoherent muttering of the blazing

    Funeral pyre. I was child, and later they

    Told me I grew, for I became tall, my limbs

    Swelled and one or two places sprouted hair. When

    I asked for love, not knowing what else to ask

    For, he drew a youth of sixteen into the

    Bedroom and closed the door. He did not beat me

    But my sad woman-body felt so beaten.

     

    The weight of my breasts and womb crushed me. I shrank

    Pitifully. Then…I wore a shirt and my

    Brother’s trouser, cut my hair short and ignored

    My womanliness. Dress in sarees, be girl

    Be wife, they said. Be embroiderer, be cook,

    Be a quarreler with servants. Fit in. Oh,

    Belong, cried the categorizers. Don’t sit

    On walls or peep in through our lace-draped windows.

    Be Amy, or be Kamala. Or, better

    Still be Madhavikutty. It is time to

    Choose a name, a role. Don’t play pretending games.

    Don’t play a schizophrenia or be a

    Nympho. Don’t cry embarrassingly loud when

    Jilted in love…I met a man, loved him. Call

    Him not by any name, he is every man

    Who wants a woman, just as I am every

    Woman who seeks love. In him…the hungry haste

    Of rivers, in me…the ocean’s tireless

    Waiting. Who are you, I ask each and everyone,

    The answer is, it is I. Anywhere and,

    Everywhere, I see the one who calls himself

    If in this world, he is tightly packed like the

    Sword in its sheath. It is I who drink lonely

    Drinks at twelve, midnight, in hotels of strange towns,

    It is I who laugh, it is I who make love

    And then, feel shame, it is I who lie dying

    With a rattle in my throat. I am sinner,

    I am saint. I am the beloved and the

    Betrayed. I have no joys which are not yours,

    No Aches which are not yours. I too call myself I.

     

    Makarand Paranjape- The Magic Lantern

     

    In the darkened room,

    The impoverished slide show was rigged up.

    One of the walls, in pale pastel,

    Serve as the screen. At the other end,

    Beside the bed, I was put in charge

    Or the old projector. A battered cardboard box

    Overflowing with slides was dumped beside me—

    ‘There, see whatever you like…’

    The other huddled near by, pulling up

    Chairs from the dining room

     

    You were such a chubby baby,

    A real cuteums and cuddleums

    Just like those fat and contented babies

    On Lactogen tins. In your father’s

    Arms, you looked like a smug kitten,

    And ‘Kaka’, as you insisted on calling your father,

    Himself was so handsome in his tweeds,

    Almost like a film star. He had those smooth,

    Appealing look.

                There you are, a brat of five or six

    With a mad gleam in your eyes, hair disheveled.

    Both sisters, framed in their mischief, like

    Two little monkeys. No wonder, you still

    Break into giggles once in a while:

    You always had that lunatic fringe.

     

    Here are a few family portraits—some common

                                                                            aunts

    Ranged together with their babies. There’s my

    Mother, behind, looking very pregnant,

    Yes, it was me she was carrying—

    And there you are, a baby again,

    Nestling in the arms of your mom.

     

    Our parents look marvelously young and energetic,

    So confident, so full of like. And you and your cousins look grumpy and cross

    Alike, as you sit on the terrace

    Of your grandmother’s house in Pune.

     

    The slide show ends abruptly:

    The power’s failed again. I draw

    The curtains aside and observed an altered world.

    All your cousins are married now,

    With children of their own.

    I marvel at the passage of time and generation…

    Are our lives going to be all that different?

     

    Well, we had to stop reviewing the past

    Before you reached adolescence. Your father said,

    ‘Anyway, there aren’t many slides of the girls

    Grown up. I lost interest, you see,

    And the hobby had become too expensive…’

    So are we overtaken by life at some point

    That we no longer have the luxury

    Of sitting back and recording the passage of time.

     

    Sharing your childhood has been a rather spooky

    Privilege: an intimacy almost incestuous

    And rather silly thoughts arise in my mind

    Unawares: ‘So, all along you were growing up

    For me, to be mine!’

                                        Guiltily, I look around

    And observe the furrowed faces

    Of your parents, whole lives are no

    So many framed negatives in the box.

    Our parents…they are all old now,

    Their generation had moved up into

    The senior citizen’s slot, leaving the ambiguous

    Pride of place to us. In them I see our future

    Just as in their past is our present

     

    We have extended our relationship back

    Into childhood, before puberty, and sexuality.

    Romance and passion pass away:

    This, our present relationship

    Is therefore not the norm, but merely a phase.

    Yet this is what the world calls love,

    And celebrates so exhaustively.

    I realize, inadvertently, that our ties are

    Deeper far…and then cleverly, I begin

    To create a mythology for us. You were

    Born, and then you called me down…

     

    In your absence, your home has yielded

    Its secrets to me one by one. While

    Your mom and dad sleep in their bedroom,

    I lie awake in your room on your childhood bed,

    Possessed in more ways than one, by you.

     

    pubDate: Wed, 02 Jun 2004 06:13:50 GMT
  • Sunday, April 11, 2004
  • ps. I'm reading some really interesting stuff for my Third World Studies Lit class- I might post some of it later.
    pubDate: Sun, 11 Apr 2004 18:03:45 GMT
  • Sunday, April 11, 2004
  • Lion King- Hakuna Matata

    So what's been going on. Let's see. Highlight of last weekend was probably the Persian party, since I unfortunately couldn't get into the all campus dance-boo. But Persian Party was really fun, esp cause there was so much room and we could just jump around and do our thing, which is MY favorite kind of dancing.

    The week was pretty average. Classes and all that. Started getting a sore throat on about Tues, which SUCKS. Oh! What IS awesome about this past week is that I'll be working with Prof Roeder to formulate the curriculum for the 2 MUN classes he's planning on teaching next year. I'm so excited! I get to help him form the entire simulation part of the class- the rules, prob the countries, the papers, etc. It's gonna be awesome. And I get honors credit for it. So I'm more than excited.

    Other than that, Thursday passed generally chill, until about midnight when my ears felt like they were plugged but wouldn't unplug. Yah- turned out I had a massively bad ear infection. Kept me up for a couple hours because it was so painful, but went to student health the next day and got anti-biotics! Hurrah- more medication for my broken self. hhaha

    So Friday we went to Fashion Valley after class for about 4 hrs and all I got was a pair of shoes- but I was pretty shocked because each of the four of us (me, Christine, Anita, Rafi) all walked out with something, which doesn't usually happen. After getting back from Fashion Valley, Samir came over for a little while, and we listened to the Lion King soundtrack like nerds, and the two of us and Janani danced around the hallway, and frightened Katie. Later on, me ANita Rafi and Crystal went to the grocery store to get food for a BBQ we were supposed to have on Saturday. But lo and behold, comes Saturday along and we did nothing. haha So we're supposed to have it today- we'll see what happens. So last night I did pretty much nothing--did a little reading but mostly stared at the computer most of the day, got a snack with Samir, and then in night ate the brownies Anita and Rafi made and watched My Sassy Girl (finally!) with Rafi, Christine, Crystal, and Anita. The end of the movie was so awesome! haha

    So today the plan is to BBQ, I THINK, and maybeeeeee go see a Hindi movie in the night. We'll see about both. All my roomies are gone but I think their coming back tonight.

    For now, I'm going to go shower and take care of HW, for once.

    bye

    pubDate: Sun, 11 Apr 2004 18:01:53 GMT
  • Friday, April 02, 2004
  • Tracy Chapman- You're the One

    Audioslave- Highway

    Yann Tiersen- La Valse D'Amelie (version piano), Comptine d'un Autre Ete, J'y Suis Jamais Alle, Le Banquet

    Dave Matthews Band- Dancing Nancies

    Beatles- Let It Be, Something

     

    Yah, I couldn't decide on one song haha.

    Read over break. Digital Fortress  and The Da Vinci Code by Dan Brown. Also Finished Wicked by Gregory Maguire just before finals.

    A lot of madness is finally over, now that my parents have completely relocated to New Jersey. Nonetheless, Spring quarter is already proving to have a lot of psychosis as well.

    First week has been pretty awesome--I MET JOHN KERRY!!!! Yah. That was cool. Classes are really great. Magagna's class  (Politics and Warfare) goes so quickly you think you've been there for 20 mins and class is over. George (South Asian Lit) seems like she's going to be a pretty cool prof and like she knows what she's talking about, and we're going to be reading a lot of cool lit, and Sapna's in the class, so I actually get to see her! Evans (MMW) is AWESOME and his accent is the coolest thing ever. Esp when he rolls his Rs. And we're going to do Cold War and WWII this quarter so I'm beyond excited. Zhiri of course is so nice and easy, but 1h20 is way too long for a French class. My ears just stop listening after awhile. In any event, I should do well in it, so that's good. Forman-Barzilai is a funny little man, but the class (Politics in Literature) is right up my alley...so I'm excited about it toooo.

    Outside of that, Nishan was here for half of first week, which was definitely good times. Kabhi, kabhi kabhi kabhi.....haha. Ooooh and his lover with nappy hair. Anyyyyyway, tonight is the celebration of both Katie and Crystal's bdays, so there's lots of partying going down, which should be pretty fun.

    Yah, so I realize this entry is entirely devoid of emotion. But yah- lots and lots going on inside the head. Both good and bad...a lot of it makes me want to bang my head into a wall. But that's ok.

    How impressed are all of you that I actually updated?

    Oh yes, I was accepted to the Sciences Po program in France conditionally- meaning that as long as a maintain a 3.3 in French and overall, I can pretty much go. I'm just waiting to be ok'd by Sciences Po itself now. And then off to France I go for a year! The paperwork is beyond frustrating, but I'm so excited about going, and I'm excited about escaping SD for a year too....aaaah sad. But come on....San Diego, or Paris? Really.

    And I've stopped making sense.

    Goodbye.

     

     

    Poems:

    e.e. cummings (Me up at does)

    Me up at does
    out of the floor
    quietly Stare
    a poisoned mouse

    still who alive
    is asking What
    have i done that
    You wouldn't have

     

    Rabindranath Tagore Where the Mind is Without Fear

    Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
    Where knowledge is free;
    Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow
    domestic walls;
    Where words come out from the depth of truth;
    Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;
    Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the
    dreary desert sand of dead habit;
    Where the mind is led forward by thee into ever-widening thought
    and action--
    Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.

    pubDate: Fri, 02 Apr 2004 21:56:51 GMT
  • Monday, February 02, 2004
  •  Dove- Rise

    Nada Surf- Inside of Love

     

    Anchal and Erina called me today. And then I had a fabulous conversation over excellent coffee. And it made me very happy...and in some ways very sad. But mostly very very happy.

    I love you guys. Thank you.

     

    pubDate: Mon, 02 Feb 2004 07:22:30 GMT
  • Thursday, January 15, 2004
  • just a beautiful poem...

     

    It's Not That I

     

    It's not that I

    like wearing flowers

    in my hair

     

    nor these jewels for ear

    finger hand throat ankle

     

    I know myself

    to be most beautiful

    when naked

     

    It's just that I like

    you to linger

    removing these

     

    -Kamal Kapoor

    pubDate: Thu, 15 Jan 2004 05:18:22 GMT